Bringing Heart Skills to Conflict

For a long time I believed that the key to resolving a difficult conflict was to help the disputants arrive at logical conclusions to which they could agree.  I tried to help people think their way through differences and negotiate compromise based on a rational...

Leadership Lessons from the Vegetable Garden

Last summer as strolled through my garden I could see that the leaves of all my green bean plants were turning yellow. So I watered them, fertilized them, and hoed the weeds away. But they just got worse and worse. Then one day I got down on my knees and sat eye to...

Reasons Skillful Conversation Matters Now

Lately my work in teaching and facilitating skillful conversation has felt more urgent.  I think that some of this urgency has to do with a number of pronounced and disturbing trends I see in American society. We are a country that is increasingly polarized.  Partisan...