IN MY TOOL BAG: 3+3+3 Centering Practice

IN MY TOOL BAG: 3+3+3 Centering Practice

When friends ask me, “how’s your week going?” my most common response is “intense.” It’s not that my work is any more demanding than yours. It’s that I have a tendency to be hyper-focused —tuning out even my own basic needs, like food. While this characteristic makes...
ON MY MIND: The Art of Self-Repair

ON MY MIND: The Art of Self-Repair

Recently, I discovered Kintsugi, a fifteenth century Japanese art form dedicated to repairing broken ceramics by filling in the cracks with gold. Once the repair is complete, the “brokenness” of the item — its defects — become its source of beauty and...
ON MY MIND: Leading is Convening

ON MY MIND: Leading is Convening

“I-don’t-know.” These are three words that most leaders rarely, if ever, dare utter. Why does the admission of “not knowing” feel so uncomfortable? As a client once shared with me, “A failure to know the answer or offer the solution feels like a failure of my...
ON MY MIND: Masks, Light, and Leadership

ON MY MIND: Masks, Light, and Leadership

I recently facilitated a workshop at the Encuentro Internacional de Equipos de Trabajo —an amazing international conference on best practices and innovations in workplace collaboration. My workshop was called: Taking Off Our Masks to Unleash the Power of Authenticity...
ON MY MIND: Demanding vs. Demeaning

ON MY MIND: Demanding vs. Demeaning

Over the past month I’ve been in very similar conversations with three different clients. They’ve gone something like this: Client: I think some of my people think I’m a real a$$hole. Me: Why might they feel that way? Client: Because before I arrived nobody demanded...